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It's true the data weren't exactly collected in the best way; taking people out of their natural environment and telling them they're being watched is not going to yield perfect results. We are neither of us very religious, and I had difficulty finding a book that was not based in Christianity. My husband and I have a good marriage, but I like to do what I can to make it even better. Still, it is much closer to reality than previous ideas on marital bliss, which were developed abstractly.We've only done one of the exercises so far, but I already feel like it brought about a better understanding of my husband. This book is exactly that for which I was looking. It uses scientific research to determine exactly what makes marriages succeed or fail. And, it was fun. I would strongly recommend this book to anyone with marital problems or anyone who just wants to make their marriage stronger.
This is a good book with good info and good points. Has exercises too that are helpful. The one thing my husband and I did not like was the author's ego. Once you get through his ego and get to the good stuff it's a good book.
This is an excellent book - We're only partway into it and have already gotten some great insights into the state of our marriage and how we can improve it. I highly recommend it.
Dr. Gottman has great insight into how to understand your mate and how to help your mate understand you as well. His approach is quite different from most marriage manuals. The seven principals are easy to understand and to put into practice.
By opening this book (and this review). These are the essence of Gottman's principles - respect and love, golden rule type of stuff. you are already willing to learn, think, and remodel. These acts mean that you probably respect others, and deserve the same. He is big on sense and provides a useful roadmap. However, if one partner is NOT reading the book, there is a problem
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